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Lillith1w 14 points written 4 months ago

I'll admit that the Amxf comments and posts on this sub gets to me a bit and has made me feel totally insecure lately. It kind of rubs me the wrong method bc I already feel like while I strongly prefer dating AMs, I find it difficult to attract Ams and these posts make it seem like they would much rather date XFs especially wfs than someone like me.

There are two factors that made my social interaction difficult, The first one being that a lot of Asian guys I get to meet are second gen bananas. Second thing is that I am perceived way less attractive amongst these guys who grew up in the West compared to the guys who grew up in Asia/consuming Asian media. On top of this couple, I don't wish to settle for a white guy, it should drive me insane.

As a parachute kid who grew up and began my dating life in China, I have managed a fobby style that's hard to shake off. I have referenced Japanese/Korean makeup and fashion my very existence so far. The beauty standards in the West is different. It doesn't help that I travel between China and Canada nearly every year and it really makes me wonder why I ever bothered with immigrating.

little bit, I look down upon any one who suggests that ppl with white features should be put on pedestals. The posts about amwfs remind me of how white worshipping parts of Asia recurrently put white women on billboards, messages, Fashion web sites etc.

there's lots of many equally attractive Asian women who are well educated and accomplished, just like the ones on Subtle Asian Dating. But it appears like we can never compete with white women of less caliber out here in the west. The posters in my eyes are equally brainwashed by traditional western media as the white [url=http://www.chnmate.com/tag/difference-between-northern-and-southern-chinese-girls/]asian women[/url] worshipping women, They don't deserve any double standards just transformation perceived gendered racism.

HenryHwang 5 points written 4 months ago

I'm sorry if this post made you feel irritated in any way. I wanted to tackle the issue about AMs and their issues when contemplating relationships. I can't learn how AFs feel in regards to all of this, which is why I asked that they leave their thoughts here as well. This is one I didn't imagine.

nevertheless, Many AMs here in the western world are bananas. I am embarrassed to say that I am one of them as well. fine, More like a bananarang since I was a self hating Uncle Chan at some point. I think this problem goes for all Asians, regardless gender. There's an internal struggle involving the culture and the Western culture you are growing up with, Which creates many illnesses. What I do so is this: around the home I am an Asian, But outside of the door I am just an American. watch out, I appear to be a self hater. thoroughly, irritating wrong with being fobby, But because I was born and grew up here inside, I am forced under different needs from immigrants. I'm trying to not be a walking stereotype of whatever. simply, It's social amount of force and culture clash that creates bananas.

Western beauty requirements and Asian beauty models, When placed also, Is like checking apples and oranges. They are in different worlds. I don't think make an attempt to shake off the Asian beauty standards you have followed your entire life. nothing at all wrong with having them here in the West. If Westerners have a problem with it, well i guess, They can go screen his or her selves. This sounds pretty hypocritical if the same standard here is applied to these point. Let's just ignore this at the moment, you need to. I can't provide a conclusion for it right now.

It's pretty disgusting how white worshipping is even a thing in the first instance. It's an abomination that shouldn't exist and serves to harm those native to their own land on so many levels, From self depreciation to being a second class citizen throughout your home country to a foreigner. Anyone who promotes it really needs to re evaluate their businesses.

Asian guys also have the same problem with competing with WM here in the West. A lot of us, despite the presence of being the equal, Or it mat be the superior caliber of. if this one white guy named Johnny, We have to REALLY outshine them to be on the map. It's the same goes with AFs and WFs like you said.

i will end my response here. in, while they are I'm at it, I want to address your issue with the AMs you have encountered and their perception of you. this might be cliche, But credit rating really that shallow, Then it shouldn't deserve you. Don't let a bunch of bananas ruin your self assurance, absolutely. keep in what's inside also counts.

Amghh 21 points written 4 months ago

in my case, I grew up watching HK/Korean movies and dramas with my mom and I didn know what the heck people were talking about at school when they talked about that white people crap. At one point I tried to watch it so I had something to discuss with friends, But it was just boring and I did not get the humour so I returned to watching my Asian shows.

When I tried to watch white people shows I always thought professions dirty faces. Then I was like 11 when WM started harassing me and there were times when I felt physically endangered being around WM/XM and I have never had that feeling around AM.

WM, XM, Lus and even some AM find it impossible to believe there are AF like me that are physically attracted to only Asian men and they try to rationalize it by saying it because of family pressure or cultural tradition or some bs. bonk off.

I had a theory for a while now that Lus have always been asexual. Like I actually feel nauseous around these WM and doesn't have in hell that any WF ever look their way, But some Lu always manages to lock down the turd and has a manifestation like she discovered a gold mine or something.

I think what Lus happen to be seeking is a closer proximity to whiteness, Hence all the issues from them about being "Fetishized, Which is yet another word for being "Othered" By white wines. I did some research to better understand the Lu mind and found that many of them resent being Asian and have a history of being bullied and ostracized by whites. beneath become Asian and their Asianness, In the same manner some people with a disease or disability claim to be proud of it even though they would rather not be diseased/disabled. White person keeps pointing it out, I never seen or heard of an Asian SJW with an Asian bf in my entire life and which is why.

HenryHwang 4 points posted 4 months ago

For most of the items I'm about to say, I'm sure you know about em already, But I'll just do it say them. It's just a reaction to your comment, that's all, you are aware of?

involved in you not getting humor of white shows, irritating wrong with it, And never be ashamed of it. It just so happens that you want Asian shows better than Western shows.

i apologize to hear that you were harassed by WMs at such an early age. I don't believe I can ever get a grasp of what it's like.

It really should not surprising to any XMs (like whites and Asians) That you prefer AMs nor if it is an impossible concept to grasp. Like I shown, To each their own in house. correct now, "Rationalizing" It with wife and kids pressure/traditions. that is where the line of stereotyping can be crossed.

Your theory about Lus being asexual is actually quite interesting. i have never heard of anyone ever proposing this before, And it's certainly something that need to be looked into. And anything you have said about Lus so far is on point.

emergeny room. When a Lu gripes about being fetishized by WMs and she still goes for them. One thing only pops into their heads: Stockholm symptoms. That's largely what can sum up this phenomenon with Lus. And when you contributed Lus "keeping" Their Asianess like a disease. When putting it that way, It's appreciate. really, of your lot worse than being a bananarang like me (mhm, I'm some of those disgraces). I actually felt which from the screen (It somehow reminds me of the days when I was a self hating Uncle Chan). I didn't even know something like that exists.

in the end, You had a really accomplished write up here. I didn't think we could go from talking regarding the subject of the original post to this, but really it all ties in together somehow some way.

HenryHwang 3 points handed in 4 months ago

All of Welsing's beliefs that were stated can be easily refuted. I'm going to focus on the parts related to Asians though.

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